Three credit moves I still see high earners miss: RSU withholding mismatches, childcare phaseouts, and the EV-credit paperwork maze.
The RSU withholding mismatch that quietly breaks your credit math

If you get paid with RSUs (or a chunky bonus) and you file your own return, you already know the vibe: the W-2 looks normal, the brokerage 1099 shows up later, and your tax bill somehow lands like a surprise anyway. The place I see high earners lose credits is less about not qualifying and more about being off by a little. A little is enough to push you over a phaseout line, or to make you think a credit is gone when the real issue was timing and withholding.
Here is the hands-on check I do before I let myself assume anything about credits: I open my last paystub of the year and I line it up next to the W-2 (Box 1 wages and Box 2 federal withholding). Then I pull the RSU release confirmations from the broker and look at the withholding rate on the vest. A lot of plans withhold at a flat supplemental rate that can be too low once your household income stacks up. That under-withholding doesn't just create a payment due. It also changes how you experience credits because you stop thinking in "qualify or not" terms and start thinking in panic terms, and panic is when people miss the clean, legal moves.
Two things to watch: (1) vesting late in the year and (2) a job change where you had RSUs vest from two employers in the same calendar year. Your overall income is what controls a lot of phaseouts, not how orderly your comp felt month to month. I have also seen people misread the RSU sell-to-cover as if it fixed everything. It usually doesn't. It just makes the vest less painful in the moment.
If you are flirting with a phaseout threshold for a credit you care about, the practical move is to stop guessing and run a quick projection in tax software using your real year-to-date numbers, including that RSU income that is already baked into your W-2 wages. Then decide whether you want to adjust withholding on your remaining paychecks (W-4 update) or make an estimated payment. None of this is glamorous. It is the boring, grown-up part that keeps you from discovering in April that you missed a credit by a few hundred dollars of income you could have timed differently.
Dependent Care FSA vs. Child and Dependent Care Credit: pick on purpose

I can usually tell who has a high-income household by how fast they say, "We have a Dependent Care FSA, so we don't get the childcare credit." Sometimes that's true. Sometimes it's leaving money on the table, and the only reason is that nobody ever sat down and chose a strategy. They just clicked the default in open enrollment while half-reading Slack.
These two benefits interact. You don't get to double-dip on the same dollars of care expenses. But you can absolutely mix them in a way that fits your actual year, especially when one spouse changes jobs, you move, a kid starts kindergarten mid-year, or your care costs swing because summer camp is its own financial event. The mechanics show up on Form 2441, which is where this gets real.
What I do in practice is run two scenarios in tax software: one where I max the Dependent Care FSA, and one where I lower the FSA election and leave more expenses available for the Child and Dependent Care Credit. Then I compare the total tax outcome, not just the size of the credit line item. A Dependent Care FSA reduces your taxable income (and often payroll taxes too), which can be powerful at higher marginal rates. The credit is calculated differently and can phase down based on income. The right choice depends on your bracket, your state, and how much qualified care expense you can document.
Documentation is where high earners get tripped up in the most annoying way. For the credit you need the provider's identifying info, and you need the amounts paid during the year. For the FSA you need receipts that match the plan's rules, and those rules can be pickier than you expect. If your daycare changes names (it happens), if you pay through an app, or if you use multiple camps, make a single folder early. I keep a running spreadsheet with date, kid, provider, amount, and payment method, and I reconcile it once a month. It takes ten minutes and prevents the late-March scavenger hunt through bank statements.
If you're married filing jointly, this also becomes a coordination problem: the FSA election is usually per household but administered through one employer, and the reimbursements flow through that one payroll system. When the working spouse changes jobs mid-year, the election doesn't always follow neatly. The credit calculation doesn't care about your HR confusion. It cares about eligible expenses and the right inputs on the form.
EV credits for high earners: treat it like a closing checklist

I like EVs. I like the instant torque, I like not thinking about oil changes, and I like waking up to a full charge in my garage. I do not like how casually people talk about the federal credit, especially in higher-income households where the income limits and filing details matter. The fastest way to get frustrated is to assume the dealer "handled it" and you'll sort it out at tax time.
My rule is to treat the credit like a closing checklist, the same way you'd treat a mortgage refi: you want the right documents, in the right year, with the right names, and you want them saved somewhere you will find them when you're tired and it's February. Start with eligibility basics on a source like FuelEconomy.gov and then confirm the specific model and year you are buying are on the list that matches the credit rules for that tax year. Model names can be confusingly similar across trims. A salesperson saying it's the same is not proof.
Then get concrete at purchase. Ask for the document that shows the vehicle identification number (VIN), the date placed in service, and the purchase details. Save the buyer's order and the final purchase agreement PDF, not just screenshots of the financing app. If you are planning to transfer the credit to the dealer at point of sale (when available under the rules for that year), make sure you have the paperwork that shows the transfer happened. If it didn't, you are back in regular claim-land.
High earners also need to be honest about income. Don't buy the car in December assuming you'll figure out your modified AGI later. If you are near a limit, do a projection before you sign. The things that move the needle are often the things that feel unrelated to the car: a surprise bonus, RSU vesting, a large capital gain from rebalancing, or a K-1 that shows up with income you didn't expect. You can't smell-test your way around that. You either qualify or you don't.
One more practical note from having watched friends scramble: if you file married filing separately for any reason, many credits get weird or disappear. Don't let the EV purchase be the first time you learn that your filing status choice has side effects. Run the return both ways (or have your CPA run it) before you commit to a strategy that depends on a credit showing up. The car is fun. The spreadsheet part is not, but it beats the alternative.